Hi Susan,
Like Richey, the only symptom I was aware of pre-diagnosis was vertigo. Since April, my vertigo seems to be changing into a kind of unsteadiness, as if my brain is literally moving in my head. In a way it's better than the vertigo, which literally had me on the floor, but the unsteadiness (for want of a better term) affects my life more because the episodes last longer and when they're happening I can't drive or do anything that involves moving my head. The theory behind the change is that the nerves on the good side are beginning compensate for the one that has the AN sitting on it. Nobody knows for sure, but that's what I'm choosing to believe!
I'll be having radiation treatment soon, using the Trilogy system. The docs have all warned me not to expect an overnight improvement, but the consensus is that in time, my balance problems will most likely subside. However, there is also a chance the radiation could cause the temporary swelling that Bruce mentioned.
It's absolutely terrifying to have vertigo while on the road. It happened to me a couple times. Doubly stressful for you since you're driving your kids. It's probably a good idea to line up some back-up transportation just in case. Are your kids old enough to understand what's happening?
The bottom line is, everyone is different and our treatment results are going to be different. The best we can do is to learn as much as possible about our options and make sure we're comfortable with our decisions. It looks like you're already on the right track!
Betsy