I smoked since I was a teenager... and quit in 2001 .. using the patch ... but it was not easy!
But I did want to quit .. and that's the key... but I realize now.. some of the issues I had... mainly fatigue ,, where AN related !
It never is, Joe.
I smoked for over 30 years (a little less than a pack a day at the time I stopped) and quit 'cold turkey' in 1989. I had a multitude of reasons, including having a then-9-year-old son who was worried about my smoking (they teach kids about the health dangers of smoking in elementary school). I was also concerned about smoking affecting my voice (I was a radio announcer and did audio commercials) as well as the usual cancer worries. The most important motivation was that I simply didn't enjoy smoking much anymore. It had become a habit - and nothing more. I decided to quit but didn't say anything to my non-smoking wife (she quit after a bout with bronchitis in 1973) just in case I didn't succeed. I went from smoking about 15-18 cigarettes a day to 5 per day for two days, then 3 per day for two days. By the final day, my last cigarette of that day 'tasted' hot, dry and totally unpleasant, which is exactly what I had hoped would happen. I put it out, (the pack was finished) marked the date on my mental calendar (May 5th, 1989), threw my trusty Zippo lighter in the dumpster and put away all the ashtrays in the house. I made no announcement.
Ironically, it was a few days before my wife noticed that I wasn't smoking. We were at a friend's house (he was a smoker). He noticed that I wasn't 'lighting up', and asked if I had quit smoking. I answered that I had. My wife was instantly giddy with elation and I was congratulated all around. She wondered why I had kept it a secret. I admitted that I was afraid of failing. It was a moot point anyway, because I
had quit and would never smoke again. That was 18 years ago. So far, so good.
Oh, I didn't gain weight, either.
I tell folks who ask that
you are your best motivation to quit. Health concerns, expense, inconvenience, a spouse, your children and/or friends wanting you to quit won't do it. I simply decided that I wasn't going to smoke anymore, and I quit. I stopped thinking of myself as a smoker, which was weird, having been one since I was 14. I just didn't like it anymore and wanted to stop, so I did. Yes, it was 'will power' but also a voluntary change of self-perception. I stopped thinking of myself as a smoker.
They didn't have the medicines they have today that help people to quite smoking, so I never got to try them. It's going on two decades since I last smoked. I can hardly recall smoking but when I do, I wonder why I did and always think of the bad taste of that last cigarette I smoked, back in 1989. My adult son (who has never smoked) mentioned that if I make it to age 74, I'll have been a non-smoker as long as I was a smoker. Well, its a goal.
I sympathize with any smoker trying to quit. I don't have any definite suggestions to make to help them except to stop thinking of yourself as a smoker, decide to take control of your life and throw away the lighters, ashtrays and any other smoking paraphernalia. Fight the urge to reach for a cigarette when you answer the phone or feel a bit anxious about something. The urge for nicotine will pass in a few days. After that, it's mental. You're fighting a habit, not a substance. As I used to tell myself;
"it's just cigarettes, not heroin or cocaine".
My lungs were clean on a pre-op CT scan in '06 and I was pleased about that. After 18 years as a non-smoker, my risk of having a heart attack has dropped to that of someone who never smoked and my heart functions are excellent. My weight (5'6" - 142 lbs.) is in the normal range. My BP is normal (128/80) and my resting pulse is around 70. I'm just an ordinary guy and not a fitness fanatic by any stretch of the imagination but I'm in fairly good shape for a man my age who never went out of his way to take special care of his body. I attribute my good health to my genes (my father lived to age 92) and the grace of God. Quitting smoking was one of the best things I ever did. I highly recommend it and encourage smokers to do what is necessary, be it
Chantix, hypnosis or will power. I strongly believe that being in good health was a factor in my successful AN treatment (surgery/radiation) and rapid recovery. I'm certain it didn't do me any harm.
Jim