Hey Barb Jo...
Hang in there,,,,,it is scary at first but then you learn to live with...that being the key phrase here...
Humor is always a good thing and you will lots on this board....second opinions are great,,,,,and I always advise the least invasive treatment first..why not give it a shot..surgery is definately risky..even if you are just getting a toenail pulled there are risks,,and this is near, around and affecting YOUR BRAIN!!!!,,,,so less invasive always wins by me. you can always try something more drastic later if you need to..but I do believe that radiosurgery is the wave of the future as more and more neurosurgeons are learning and using a variety of radiation treatments that so far seem relatively safe and effective rather than just going for the slice..I compare it to the beginning of endoscopic surgery that is now performed all over for knee replacements etc..when it first came out..not everyone did it,,,,Drs were afraid of the technology etc....but now you never ever see anyone having thier whole knee sliced up to fix a torn ligament....so I think the treatment of all brain tumors is in a similar growth pattern..
Good luck,,you will always find lots of info here and feel free to just join in when fustrated..keep us posted on your progress.
Ceeceek