Hi,
I am sorry to hear about your son and the AN diagnosis. I have to tell you
that he is very lucky that you caught it so small. My sons was 45MM. Or
4.5 CM. So there was brainstem issues and the like. Eric was diagnosed
right at the end of his senior year so make up work was not an issue. But
he did defer all of his scholarships to January. The only reason Eric had to defer was
His Paralized vocal cord and swallowing. If he didn't have that I think he may have
been able to attend in the fall. I would say that recovery in the best of circumstances is
2-3 months. I think anyway.
I would really suggest you
get an opinion from doctors here at University of Colorado. They are really
fantastic. If they don't do the surgery they they will at least have really
good information. Dr Jenkins is a miracle worker. They told us at our
last appointment that they have done 3 more large tumors. I don't think they were as
large as Erics, and saved the facial nerve in all of them. In fact Dr Jenkins said That Eric's falls in the
top 15 largest he has ever done. But Eric also falls into the top 5% of best recoveries too. He also was the
only one that had a vocal cord problem. Every case is different. The fact that your son's is small is
really good. I know it doesn't seem like it but really it could be way worse. Ask Chelsea's mom.
http://www.uchsc.edu/otolaryngology/faculty/Jenkins.html Eric is deaf in his ear. That really is the least of the problems. Losing
hearing is pretty common. But I know our docs at University prefer the
retro method and you have a better chance of saving hearing that way. I
would definetly call them. They will know who would be best for the
surgery. They are both heads of their departments. We cannot say enough
about their skill.
As far as making our decision it was difficult. Because of the size of
Eric's tumor we had to hurry and had to have the best. It was down to them
or House Ear Clinic. I felt House was pushy and I didn't feel 100%
comfortable. I felt like the guys at University were the best but I felt
like I should "want" to go to house. It was agonizing because House made us
feel like if we did not go with them something bad would happen. I listened
to myself and my intuition and finally knew to go with Jenkins. I will
warn you his bedside manner is terrible but he is a very skilled surgeon,
in my view that is the most important thing. And he really is a caring person just
really, really down to the facts kind of guy. He called from out of the country after
Eric's surgery to find out how he was. Not that house is bad. We would have gone with
them if we did not have the University of Colordao guys. But I did not agree with
how they made me feel about it during our decision. After we told them who we
had picked they supported us and wished us well. I think House is very good too.
Also, Jenkins has been doing these for 25 years. He knows about the
radiation and the like. I would definetly be concerned about radiation at
your son's age. I know our doc didn't want to do radiation unless
absolutely necessary. So, once agian I would call Dr Jenkins and see if he
can give you any information. I think that radiation may be okay but I feel at 17 there is no
reason to risk it unless absolutely necesary.
In my humble opinion the guys at sweedish are not the ones that have the
most experience. If it were me I would not go with them. Dr Hagerty is a
very sweet person and I have talked to him. I felt he was pretty
knowlegable. He did not feel he had the expertise for Eric's but that is
because his was gigantic as one doc put it.
Eric is doing very well and his age helped him recover fast. The fact that
you guys caught yours so early is great. He has a great chance of saving
everything else. I think the hearing thing is something you will have to
get used to. I guess it didn't bother us as much becuase my ex has been
deaf in one ear and he does fine with it. We were used to it because of him.
Eric has a few problems with loud noise. We went to a loud bar the other night to watch the ROCKIES.
(Yaay Rockies) and Eirc got agitated and we had to leave. It took him a couple hours to
feel better. But really Eric has had asthma from a really young age and he just takes this
stuff in stride. Part of the reason it took us so long to catch the tumor was because
He doesn't notice this stuff. I found out one day when we were sitting on the floor
petting the dog and he was drooling. I was laughing at him for drooling and he said, " I do that
sometimes" then I was like, "why, and he said he had the numbness. Even then it took us 2 months to go to the doc.
Really, the SSD has not
been bad at all. He rarely brings it up. He was a little sad at first. But you know, we got an adaptor for the ipod and
that is all a teenager needs. LOL. Really, Eric did not have any hearing loss before the surgery so it was sort of worse for
him. He lost it all at once.
With your son's tumor being so small I am wondering if you couldn't wait
until the end of the year.
I hope that helps. I am glad to help in any way.
Sending sunshine,
Robyn
PS. Aren't you so cute wishing the Rockies well.