After seeing some of what others have been through, my story doesn't seem that bad!! Back then, they didn't share as many details OR (probably) I was just a young, dumb blonde who was very naive! They told me I had to have the tumor out ASAP and so I did -- they didn't even tell me that I would lose my hearing! I probably didn't ask the right questions, but we didn't really have time to do much research and the internet wasn't such a big thing then. The tumor was the size of a man's fist and had totally moved my brain stem to the left side of my head. I was in the OR for 14 hours and had a stroke while on the table. I feel very confident in my Dr.'s, I just had a really big tumor. I was the 2nd youngest then, unforunately for others, probably not now. My doctor was at the Baylor College of Medicine in Houston and I had surgery at Methodist Hospital. I had been a PE major in college, but was teaching 1st grade at the time. I could walk, but not well, mainly from the stroke and I had to totally learn to write again (in fact, I still write on the bulletin board w/my left hand and paper w/my right!). I went back after 3 months w/ LOTS of help & support from my fellow teachers. My face is completely paralyzed on the R side -- I did have a 12/7 Graft a year after my original surgery since I had not regained any function. I have had my R eye sewn shut but is now reopened and FINALLY have a gold weight there (they got it right after 3 tries and it was 7 years before they did it!!!) Of course, I don't hear at all in that ear. Aside from all of that, I have a SUPER life: a WONDERFUL husband (I'd been married 1 year when diagnosed/surgery) and went on to have 3 beautiful daughters (I got pregnant less than 1 1/2 years after surgery -- not my smartest move, but I wanted a baby so bad!). I just started a blog, but I don't know if I am suppose to put that address here - let me know if you want that! Did I leave anything out? Oh yeah, I never had memory loss before, but have some now and had HORRIBLE headaches before but rarely ever now. I had a lot of nosebleeds for about 5-6 months right after surgery. but none now either. Like I said, I feel VERY fortunate!!