Hi Cab,
Your post requested feedback relative to surgery and recovery time. My middle fossa surgery was 4 hours. At HEI, you are in ICU for 24 hrs. Then you are discharged to the sixth floor. My stay at the hospital was four days.
My biggest side effect the first five weeks was fatigue ( I took naps daily for the first few weeks) and my right eye did not tear at first. However, it was moist enough that I didn't need daily drops. I went to an opthamologist in Hinsdale that works with AN's. He, too, said that my eye closed correctly and was okay. He said sometimes the lack of tears might last for 3 month to a year to..... My tears did return right after New Years and my operation was in November.
There were a couple of times I felt off balance during recovery. Like many on this listserv, it seemed to be at night. Like one night I woke up in the middle of the night for a drink of water and while trying to walk around the dog,I walked into the furniture. Or the time I just finished telling the hair stylist that I was doing great and she asked me to stand up for a moment to sweep all the clippings and I stood up and veered into the wall. We both laughed....but truly those are the extremes and happened during the first five weeks after my surgery.
I was able to return to work full time after five weeks as a Curriculum Director for a large suburban school district. That being said, Keep in mind the uniqueness of the experience for each individual. Know that your outcome and experience will be as varied as the darn tumors themselves. But go in with an expectation that you will recover and move on. Soon you will be on the other side of the mountain coaching others.
There was a movie called, Pay It Forward with Kevin Spacey and Helen Hunt. Its theme was that the way to pay someone back for good fortune is to "pay it forward".
This is my hope for you as you journey along the AN path.
All the best,
Kate