Okay, I'm up for the challenge. Steve. you are so great for saving this and bringing it out now!
It was one year ago tomorrow that I had surgery. Pretty textbook event for the surgeons - took 5 1/2 hours, got all but a few bits of the tumor, facial nerve tested well throughout, patient woke up and immediately threw up. Yep, pretty textbook.
As I reflect back on this year, I feel proud, and I feel humbled. Am I a different person? Yes, in some ways, I suppose I am. I am more diligent about telling my husband, family and friends how much I love them. At the same time, I am less patient wtih those around me who won't take control of their lives and who persist in being miserable. I am more patient with people who are having a tough time as long as they are making an effort. I've "fired" several clients because I really didn't think they actually wanted to change - there's plenty of other coaches out there who will take their money, I don't need to invest in perpetuating patterns of failure. I have learned to be much more patient with myself and to ask for help when I need it (always hard for me in the past.) And, I've learned how to politely say no to things that aren't not in alignment with my core values and goals. I take more time to just enjoy a moment. And, I've started taking photos again because I seem to be seeing beauty in things I hadn't noticed in many years.
I've also learned to execute a nearly flawless "SSD Swivel" without falling flat on my face. In fact, Willie tells me that it is like some strange form of deranged ballet ... a tentative note floats out and Debbi twirls and pirouettes about trying to find the source of the note before it fades into oblivion.
![Cheesy :D](https://www.anausa.org/smf/Smileys/classic/cheesy.gif)
And, I've learned to surrepticiously wipe my lower right lip after every bite lest a Porterhouse be hanging off my numb lip. I've also learned to manually hold my lips closed while rinsing my mouth out so as not to spray water everywhere. Oh, and I have also mastered drops in my eyes anywhere, anytime, even at high speeds.
I know that, for me, this was a life changing event. And, I can happily report that the most important changes have all been good. You get used to the little stuff like the SSD and the occasionally drooling
![Grin ;D](https://www.anausa.org/smf/Smileys/classic/grin.gif)
and you also realize that it doesn't define who you are.
BTW, some of you may enjoy this article I published a few months ago "7 Things a Brain Tumor Taught Me"
http://www.ezinearticles.com/?7-Things-A-Brain-Tumor-Taught-Me&id=1876243