Waiting Surgery Date

[Sammict]

Hi Everyone

I have been waiting around a week for my doctors office to call me with a surgery date. Does it usually takes this long?

I'm not sure if I should call them? I am getting frustrated. I just want to start setting plans in motion. Any one have an ideas for me?

Sam

[Jim Scott]

Hi, Sam:

We know that waiting is frustrating, so I would call the doctor's office and inquire about the surgery date. The hospital may be unable to give him a date for an available operating room or he may be trying to juggle his calendar but you certainly need to know and, as you indicated, begin making your plans. 

I might remind the doctor's secretary/nurse that you've been waiting a week, this is major surgery and you need to know the date.  This is a very reasonable request.  My neurosurgeon had my surgery date for me within 24 hours.  A week seems extreme.  Be proactive.  Remember, you have the right to be treated with respect, including respecting your time and your peace of mind.

I hope this is resolved quickly.  Please keep us informed.

Jim

[ppearl214]

Sam, agree with Jim..... it is our body and we need to be proactive in our care.  If you are tired of waiting, then follow up appropriately (good ways to be diplomatic yet firm about your need for information).

Hang in there and please keep us updated.

Phyl

[leapyrtwins]

Sam -

I agree with Jim and Phyl.

Usually a few things have to fall into place - the doctor or doctors have to coordinate their schedules - in my case I had a neurotologist and a neurosurgeon - plus there's hospital scheduling - OR, anesthesiologist, etc. - but it shouldn't take that long.  It might not be a bad idea to check with the doctor's office.  Afterall, you have plans to make and you need to know a definite date.  I think your doctor's staff will understand that perfectly.

Jan

[Sammict]

Thanks everyone

I left messages this morning with both doctors. I will keep everyone in touch as soon as i know anything.

Sam

[Debbi]

Sometimes I don't think brain surgeons realize how scary it is for those of us who have something growing in our noggins!   I had to remind my surgeon's scheduling person at one point that I had a BRAIN tumor!  Hang in there, Sam - and don't hesitate to be a squeeky wheel if need be!

Debbi

[leapyrtwins]

Sam -

I'm glad to hear you have contacted both doctor's offices. 

I'm sure you'll have a surgery date soon.

Keep the faith and stay strong 

Jan

[Sammict]

Thanks Everyone

Your advise worked they called me with a date June 18 and they have sent me all the required paperwork in the mail.

I'm not sure i feel any better but at least I can get my affairs in order.

Thanks Sam

[lori67]

Sam,

Sometimes it can feel a least a little better knowing that there's one less thing to worry about - and that's the date of the surgery.  Having it not set yet can be very frustrating.

Now you can put that worry behind you and concentrate on getting yourself ready.

Good luck to you!
Lori

[Jim Scott]

Hi, Sam:

I'm so pleased to read that your calls bore fruit and you've been assigned a date for surgery.  It pays to be proactive! 

You have plenty of time to prepare so make good use of it.  I suggest having an advocate with you in the hospital, if at all possible.  Someone who will look after your interests (medical and personal) and insure you're not neglected or ignored and have whatever you need.  Prepare for some level of help in the first week at home, following your discharge.  You'll be weak and tired and won't be up to a lot, although you shouldn't be bedridden, by any means.  Still, even a little help with mundane chores will be a great benefit.  I'm sure other posters will offer lots of suggestions on how best to prepare for AN surgery. 

I took the liberty of adding your surgery date to the Treatment Calendar.  http://my.calendars.net/AN_Treatments
Please feel free to modify your entry, if you wish.  Also know that you'll be thought of and prayed for by many come June 18th.  We wish you a great outcome! 

Jim

[leapyrtwins]

Sam -

I'm happy to see that your efforts paid off and that you now have a date.

And, Jim, thanks for adding Sam's date to the calendar.  I was going to suggest it to her, but you're one step ahead of me 

Jan

[Sammict]

Thanks Jim for entering my surgery date I wasn't sure how to access the calender.


Sam