Hi Sher-
I absolutely agree 100% with Jan. Being diagnosed wth an AN is a very big deal and you have every right to ask any and all questions, vent, cry, complain and anything else you need to do here! We are all or have been in the same boat pretty much whether we are new here or have been here for a while. I have been here a little longer than you, (since April 10), but have not had my surgery yet. I can tell you this though. The people on this forum are happy to be there for one another. They have already been a great help ot me, and I have tried to return the favor to those I can, to the best of my ability. As Jan says, you can consider us your AN family. I know I already do. The symptoms I have had so far are fullness in my AN ear and sometimes intense pressure, tinnitus, feeling off-balance, occasional stiff neck (I think this might just be tension though), occasional pain behind my AN ear, numbness in my AN ear and same side cheek, and hearing loss. None of these are fun, but all are part of the package. Hang in there and ask anything you need to.
Wendy