Gloriann:
I'm sorry you're experiencing a regrowth. Unfortunately, with Acoustic Neuroma tumors, this is always a possibility.
I hesitate to offer specific advice because I'm not a doctor and don't know every detail of your situation. That being the case, as a general suggestion, I would go for radiation. It's non-invasive and if performed correctly can shrink and kill the AN or at least stop it from growing. I had surgery, then radiation (FSR) for my large AN. So far, so good. However, should I experience a re-growth (which I doubt will happen) I would opt for radiation over surgery, if it were feasible in my case. Surgery was a hassle and I wouldn't want to go through it again if I could do something easier and likely just as effective. However, this is - ultimately - your decision to make. Do as much research as you can, weigh your options, consider doctor's opinions and the ones you'll receive here as well but remember that it's your head and you'll have to live with any negative consequences that may arise, no matter what treatment you choose. Steve's admonition that all AN treatments carry some risk, albeit small, is a salient point worth remembering. Nothing you do to address this AN will be entirely risk-free. That shouldn't stop you from moving forward, just have realistic expectations. Be cautious but don't waste time as the AN probably won't stop growing and the sooner it's addressed, the better.
I wish you all the best and pray that you'll make a decision on treatment that serves you well.
Jim