Nancy--
As others have pointed out, the location of an AN can have as much to to with symptoms as the size. And symptoms can be intermittent (at least, in my experience, they have been).
Because my AN-related hearing loss 20 years ago was misdiagnosed, and the only other symptom I had prior to surgery was occasional bouts of vertigo (which I attributed in the months before surgery to an inner ear infection!), I would NEVER have guessed I had a large (5 cm) tumor. This time around, the tumor is much, much smaller, and again the symptoms are very intermittent (very occasional mild-to-moderate shooting pains in my face and teeth), so that I would have probably ignored them again if not for my history. In both cases, it seems, the location of the tumor has kept it from producing terribly bothersome symptoms.
I wouldn't worry about "what ifs" such as whether it would have made a difference to follow up sooner on your hearing loss 6 months ago, as the 1 mm growth the MRI eventually revealed had probably taken place by then. And I'd guess the report from the panel of docs this week will address how best to preserve your remaining hearing.
Glad to hear you are moving toward a treatment choice--sounds as though the entire decision will be falling into place before too much longer...
Hang in there, and keep us posted!