Michelle,
My surgery was in January of 2004 and it took me quite some time to get over the vestibular problems although I've heard of other people doing well very quickly...........I think everyone goes at their own pace. It wasn't an easy thing and at times I still have challenges especially in the dark or when I get up and move too quickly. I did find that when I rode in a car I would get a weird, dizzy feeling, which I still get at times, but not as bad as I did last year or that day I went home from the hospital. I found that if I put my head against the headrest that feeling is not as bad. Not sure if you are experiencing anything like that or not. Funny but I don't have that problem when I'm the one who is driving, maybe it's a control thing
What the others said is true though, I've found that I just had to get out there, and scary as it was, go through the crowds (shopping in a supermarket you can also rely a bit on a shopping cart if you need to) and deal with the distractions and that was probably better therapy than the vestibular therapy that I went through a few months after my surgery. If someone would grab on to me when I was walking, that would throw me off, it still does but not quite as much. My husband doesn't quite seem to understand it and thinks I just don't want him to put his arm around me, guess he'll just have to deal with it LOL! I've just decided that if someone sees me stumbling around a bit, maybe they'll just think I'm drunk
Hang in there, you can do it!
Karen