Kelsi,
Glad to hear about your partners positive outcome with surgery and his facial nerve. I too wanted the same from my surgeon regarding my facial nerve and he delivered! Feeling "yucky" right after surgery is not how I described the first time I opened my eyes, rather NIGHTMARE is my description. Very frightening when you do not have your "other" balance nerve and takes some time, alot of hard work as you state, to get back to normal, well not the same normal but a "new" normal. Today when asked how I'm doing I've lowered my bar and say "I'm standing, thank you!" In all honesty I'm doing great and walk outside, through malls, and other stores with confidence and most times don't even think about my imbalance. Here's to more speedy recoveries for your SO and remind him to look at the progress, rather than what is lost.