Great news, everyone!!! Here's Brian's email to me last night - read it and smile!
just an FYI.
It turned out not to be an acoustic neuroma, but a trigeminal one; the tumor grew out of this nerve. As a result, what looked like an awful mass on the MRI was in fact located in a terrific place; as a result, the surgeons were able (a) to preserve the vestibular nerve, (b) remove all of the tumor; (c) leave intact (that is, avoid) all of the cranial nerves. Hence, a tumor roughly 4.0 cm in size was removed in its entirety, with no paralysis of any of the nerves. Truly, truly a remarkable outcome. As a result, the surgeons feel strongly that radiotherapy is not needed at all, and that all of the tumor was removed. [We would've been delighted with a "debulking" of 80% followed by gamma-ray treatment.)
As a husband who has watched his wife go through such a a difficult and terrifying ordeal, I want to say that the a-n website was a remarkable source of support and information for Marci. I can't tell you how grateful I am for the support, and how thrilled we are with the outcome. When I left Marci this evening (about 9:00 pm) she was in pain, but otherwise fabulous.We are, indeed, lucky.
So the news is wonderful! I have just copied Brian on all your posts so he can read them to Marci in the hospital - I know they'll make her smile. Stay tuned ...
(And, actually, this job pays great just in terms of feeling good and doing something to "pay it forward". This is what so many of you did for me so recently.)
Debbi, beaming