Hi Bobbibl,
Welcome to the forum and sorry for your diagnosis. I just would like to share your anxiety! i am in the same boat as you are, I was at the same age when diagnosed and had two retrosigmoids, (you can read about it in my signature) too!
During my first surgery i did not have a choice, once the doctor saw my MRIs, he immediately hospitalized me (I even was not allowed to get home and have stuff for my stay in the hospital - my relatives had to bring it later)!
But now since I have more time and know that i need another surgery i am looking for good surgeons across the planet (I forgot to mention I am from Bulgaria, Europe!)!
I have already got in touch with the House Ear Institute (HEI) in LA, California - they are top-notch - lot of the members had their surgeries performed there - KateB (she was one of the first to write to me and to give me detailed information!, JerseyGirl2, Bridget, Catherine and many others). I am sure they will go along the thread but just in case you may need to send them personal messages.
I have also heard of very good outcomes form members who had their surgeries in Cleveland Clinic - Pembo and MAlegnat can help here.
Another centers i have heard excellent recommendations of are the Michigan Ear Institute and Ear Institute in Chicago - Jan is a great reference to the latter!
I have already received some information from Dr House in House Ear Clinic in LA so if you need it, just PM me!
As far as I got from the site, those who are insured in the USA get paid for the surgery, hope you won't have any problems about this!
Otherwise it is VERY VERY expensive (you hear it from the horse's mouth
)
Best wishes in your search, I can assure you that you found a great place full of information and willing to help people!
Ask any questions you have and hang on here,
Hrissy