Apostle:
I'm sorry you and your husband have to deal with this but at least you have health insurance. Getting it to cover what it should cover is another matter. Because
Debbi,
Joe and others who've already replied to your post have dealt with the same doctors, they should be able to offer you some very useful advice.
I can tell you from my experience that you
can successfully negotiate with insurance companies, hospitals and doctors. Most reputable doctor's offices will be quite willing to work out a payment plan for any large fees you may owe, as will almost all hospitals. I did this with the relatively small parts of my AN surgery expenses that weren't covered and it worked out just fine. In most cases, if you ask them, doctors will also send the insurance company a letter explaining the necessity of a procedure or whatever the insurance company requests, as this is ultimately in their best interests, financially and for your good will and peace of mind.
Insurance companies are harder to deal with but they can be tractable if you approach them with facts, stay calm and civil and always try to deal with a supervisor, not just a representative, who usually doesn't have the authority (or knowledge) to see and implement the exception that should be made in your situation.
The bottom line is that these expenses can usually be negotiated and it is certainly worth your while to do so. You have a very logical case regarding one neurosurgeon who is a part of your insurance company's network partnering with another doctor who isn't in the network. You didn't choose the second doctor. That is a relevant fact that may alter your insurance company's decision but of course, if the contract language states that they don't have to pay the fees of an out-of-network doctor, they are legally covered, no matter the unfairness of their decision in your specific case. You may well be liable for the $400. consulting fee, but if so, that likely can be paid in increments and, as you suggested, Dr. Roland may consider adjusting his consulting fee in your case, but that is his decision. I doubt he is under any legal or ethical obligation to do so. Let's hope he is used to these situations and has some compassion for you and your husband as well as understanding that this situation (AN surgery) is stressful enough with his adding to it.
Please let us know how this works out, via this forum. Your situation and how you surmount it can be helpful to others in the same circumstances. Oh, and welcome to the site and the forum.
Jim