Patti~
I had my surgery 12 years ago and still struggle with getting too tired. Usually when other Mothers are running around the house after they get their kiddos to bed, cleaning the kitchen & doing laundry, I am too wiped out to do anything. More than one doctor has told me that I will always be more tired at night and better in the mornings. That has DEFINITELY been the case. I don't seem to have what you are describing (I COULD take naps, but just don't have the time for that), but I guess I have learned my limits. When I was still working full-time and just had one child, the neuro told me I should just be doing ONE of those things - of course, my reply was that I was trying to get pregnant again!! My husband is a saint and helps me TONS!! I am trying Rhodira (sp?) as soon as it comes in. Eve suggested it on another thread...
Sorry I can't give more encouraging information!
K