Mo Ro -
just curious, does your sister's boyfriend's brother have two BAHAs or two Cochlears? BAHAs are commonly used for unilateral (single-sided deafness) and Cochlears for bilateral (complete) deafness. BAHA implants and Cochlear implants are similar, though not the same. The one major difference I know of is that Cochlears have visible wires, BAHAs do not.
Elda -
posting pictures is easy and I can definitely tell you how to do that, but I'm not sure I want to see pictures of your failed BAHA surgery if they are "pretty dramatic" - not that it's my job to censor things on the forum
I understand your statement about the skin graft now, but technically it's not a skin graft since the skin wasn't taken from another part of your body. No big deal, I just don't want to give BAHA candidates a confusing "picture".
I don't know how docs decide where to place the BAHA implant, it must have something to do with the location of your bones since I know the BAHA works through bone conduction. Lori (lori67) has mentioned that her site is not in the same place as mine, but I can't recall if it's higher or lower.
I'm not sure how the scar from retrosigmoid affects the circulation, I just know that I had retrosigmoid and my scar wasn't a factor. The thinned skin on my skull did cause one of the screws that is holding my bones back together (placed during my retro surgery) to almost "pop" through my skin, but that didn't happen. My doc said if the screw did pop through, he'd just unscrew it - no damage done.
Jan