Hello Hannie and welcome:
I'm pleased that you've found this site and the forums. I don't usually make a habit of disputing licensed physicians on medical issues but I have to tell you that I seriously doubt your doctor's statement that acoustic neuroma removal surgery causes epilepsy. He may have heard or read this story about London Symphony Orchestra trumpeter Ron Franks that ran in the the Times a few days ago.
http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/health/article4787232.eceNote that at the end of the story, Simon Crompton queries Professor Michael Gleeson about acoustic neuromas. Crompton asks:
"Is Rod Franks's epilepsy linked to his brain tumour?" Professor Gleeson replies:
"No. Epilepsy can occur later in life for many reasons." I found that interesting.
Your AN is small enough to at least consider non-invasive irradiation treatment but of course you need to consult with physicians on that possibility. Your doctor was correct about one thing. Ultimately, the treatment (and physician) you choose will be
your decision. To arrive at an informed decision, do the research. This website and the ANA info packet are excellent sources. The internet has many AN sites that can be informative. Don't overload, but do sort out the facts. Feel free to use these forums as a resource. We're not doctors but we have enormous, cumulative practical experience in acoustic neuroma treatment and symptoms. We want to help.
As has been stated: we have some very knowledgeable U.K. members that will eventually see this post and respond to it with information on British facilities, doctors and the intricacies of the NHS. Check back often.
I wish you success in your quest for information and, of course, a successful outcome to whatever treatment you chose.
Jim