Jan:
Thanks for your concern and your prayer request. I'm pleased to respond to it.
I can empathize with the little girl's family and friends because my brother-in-law (my sister's husband) died from a brain tumor a few years ago. He was in his early 50's. Although he had treatment at the best facilities available (Johns Hopkins), he slowly lost his ability to talk, his ability to move and eventually, passed away, at home, under his wife's care, as he had wished. She was devastated, of course, but she soldiers on. Fortunately, my brother-in-law left my sister financially secure and able to continue the domestic and foreign travel they enjoyed for years. However, his brain tumor and subsequent death were a shock to the family.
I will definitely include your daughter's friend, Kelly, in my prayers. I truly believe that God does have a plan for every life and I hope that this young girl is allowed to live a full and productive life but if not, I know she'll be in the hands of a just and merciful God.
Jim