Thank you all for your advice and words of encouragement. I found a local brain tumor support group; The Michael Quinlan Brain Tumor Foundation, and Jim visited with the founder, Kathy Quinlan yesterday. She gave him tons of information and had such a positive and nurturing spirit, so Jim is feeling a little better about things. He now has brochures on the Gamma Knife, radiation therapy, surgery, and all the other options for treatment. She also gave him two books; one on mind/body/spirit connection called Your Body Believes Every Word You Say and one with inspirational pictures and quotes. She also included two music cds; one with relaxing piano music and one from a local brain cancer survivor named David M Bailey who was told he only had six months to live and who has stayed around now for 16 years. Mr Bailey gave up his job and decided to do the things he loves and he loves writing and playing music. His cd is called Love the Time. She also gave each of us a gray brain tumor support bracelet that says Sharing Hope and gray brain tumor support ribbon pins. She also included information on nutrition, alternative treatments, supplements, support group info, online resources, foundations and treatment centers, etc. It was such a massive amount of info and she put it in a canvas bag for him. Jim called me after he left the foundation and sounded so relieved and like a big weight had been lifted from him. He's still having difficult time, but is feeling a little lighter about it.
He has an appointment on Friday with the oncologist/radiologist on who treated his mother for breast cancer. He is supposed to be a very good doc and people visit him from all over the state and surrounding states. If the doc doesn't think he'd be able to do the treatment, he can refer him to someone who can. The nurse mentioned referring people to the University of Kentucky in Lexington for the Gamma Knife, so I don't know if there is one here in Louisville.
Can anyone tell me whether or not a breathing tube is required for surgery, if that is the way we have to go? Jim woke up once during a procedure where a balloon was inflated in his esophagus to stretch it and was traumatized by having something down his throat. I woke up during an endoscope before and it is terrifying; you really feel like you're choking to death and can't breathe. Jim's really nervous about waking up with a tube in his throat.
I forgot to mention Jim's age and the location of the tumor before. He's 36 years old, the tumor is on the auditory nerve on the right side, lying next to his cerebellum and brainstem. He has lost 20% of his hearing and has lots of tinnitus and hears other groovy sounds all the time. He says that it feels like there is pressure in his ear and that sometimes when people talk to him, it sounds like they are muffled, like they have their hand in front of their mouths or are talking through a towel or scarf. His other symptoms are dizziness, uncoordination, balance problems, confusion and anxiety. Jim is a very big fan of music and does not want to lose his hearing. I know that no one does, but it would just kill him to not be able to listen to the radio, hear me talk, hear the cats and all their noises or listen to his music.
Jim's having a rough time right now. My 19 year old niece was killed in a traffic accident Thanksgiving weekend, he was diagnosed with the brain tumor this last month and his grandmother died at 4:30 this morning. We'll be out of town for the funeral on Friday and Saturday, so I may not be online much later this week. We'll have to travel 2-1/2 hours each way on Friday and Saturday and since I have fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue syndrome, I might be too exhausted and too sore to check mail or the board.
Thanks again for your help. If anyone can translate the radiologist report for me, I'd really appreciate it. There's just too many technical words for my old brain to understand.