HI Lulu,
Welcome to this forum. As others have said, I'm sorry to know you have an ANt, but am glad you found us. This group is a wonderful source of information, compassion, support and hilarity. Please feel free to ask any and all questions and vent when you need to. I am 55, had translab 10 weeks ago and am doing geat. My facial nerve is fine, I had a minor problem with the eye on my AN side but it resolved within the first month. My only problem is my balance and even that is not really terrible, more of an invonvenience. I am currently walking with a cane, but hope to soon give it up. I had been going vor vestibular rehabilitation (retrains your brain to take balance function information from your good ear) I get a little wonky headed (slightly disorientted, somewhat more off balance, and sometimes mildly nauseous) when I am in a crowd -- no extreme dizziness or vertigo. Of course, since I had translab I lost my hearing in my AN ear. I am planning to have surgery for a BAHA (bone anchored hearing aid) implant in January and will hopefully be hearing somewhere close to normal by sometime in April. All in all, I feel I have had a wonderful outcome and I am definitely sure this was the right choice for me. Only you can decide which form of treatment is right for you, everyone makes their decisions on treatment for their own reasons. My advice is research ANs and their treatment, have several consultations with both radiation oncologists and neurotolotgists and make an informed decision. I wish you luck in your research and decision making process. We will be here to support you in whatever ways we can.
Best wishes,
Wendy