Hello Kenneth-
So glad to hear that your surgery went well! And that they got the whole tumor!! As for the SSD, it is not so bad. The facial paralysis is unfortunate, but it does get better and you will probably find that it isn't that bad either. I will hope that your facial nerve heals quickly. I am at almost six months and have quite a bit of movement back, although still no blink and my lower lip still doesn't move. However, it is so much better than when I first got out of surgery!
I know that some people experience post surgical depression, but I really didn't. I think that we all process changes in our environment differently. If you are lucky enough to have a good support system, I think that really helps (it certainly helped me!) I also really beleive that what is done is done - you can't change history, but you can control how you approach the future.
I wish you a speedy recovery, Kenneth. We're here whenever you need us!
Debbi in New Jersey