Hi Steve,
I'm sorry to hear of your son's diagnosis. I know what you're going through. My daughter was diagnosed at age 13 - when we discovered her spinal cord tumors, which were successfully removed. NF2 was confirmed as she also had bi-lateral acoustic neuroma. You are doing exactly the right thing by researching everything you can find about NF 2. I cannot emphasize enough how important it is to take your son's medical care into your own hands. If I had listened to the first neurosurgeon we went to, my daughter would be completely deaf now - he didn't want to operate until her hearing was gone! Through this website, I learned of the House Ear Institute in LA. I obtained copies of my daughter's MRI's and sent them along with a letter to the doctors at House. Within a few days, Dr. Friedman called me personally and told me what he could do to help. Long story short, within 6 months of that conversation, he successfully removed the smaller of her tumors - about 2 cm- without damage to her hearing or facial nerve. She's doing great. She is 17 now, and we are "waiting and watching" the remaining tumor.
Please don't let any obstacle prevent you from at least contacting House Clinic. It is THE BEST PLACE IN THE WORLD to get treatment for NF 2 tumors. I was worried because we live in Texas and House is located in LA - not exactly a day trip for us. It's worked out fine - we get our MRI's done locally and send the films to Dr. Friedman for evaluation. My prayers are with your family.