Hi Dawn,
Yes, I'd have to say that fatigue is the most frustrating thing for me, too. It rears it's ugly head just when you think all is well. The thing is...when I get really tired, then I feel wonky headed, although this is getting less and less the further out from surgery I get.
I'm an internet analyst, so a desk job, mostly on the computer. I went back to work 1/2 time from HOME at 6 weeks, and back to the office full time at 8 weeks. I have had a pretty good recovery, and let me tell you...it was tough. SOOO tired, especially by the end of the week. But, like another has said, I really think that going back to the office helped in my recovery. I also wasn't driving until about 5 weeks.
Balance issues are different for everyone. I never had any spinning dizziness...just the feeling of being unbalanced. The first couple days were the worse, but after the nausea went away (anesthesia related for me) things improved pretty quickly. Now after ALMOST 4 months post op, I still get an occasional feeling of light headedness, but that is slowly getting better each week, too. Thank God.
Cathy