Hi All-
Backl from a visit to Dr. Roland, who said that this is NOT synkinesis, but is an overactive muscle in my cheek (he had a more technical term - "overactive" is my translation). Same thing with the occasional dimple in my chin. This is very good news, although I do need to find some exercises to try to relax the muscle in my cheek a bit. David, I am going to try what you are suggesting. Dr Roland also suggested gently massaging the muscle in my lower cheek.
One of the challenges where I am is that the nearest really good place for EMR is an overnight trip for me - or an unbearablly wrong day. Dr. Roland is pitching the powers that be at NYU Med Center (next week, actually) to start an EMR program. He wants to have someone go train with Jackie Diehl and then start a program here because there is such a need. I am supporting him 100% on that (not that I have any sway at NYU of course!)
Sara, I initially went to a "facial" therapist at Kessler Institute, but she was more of a speech therapist (who works with a lot of stroke patients) so I think the program she gave me was probably pretty mediocre. Not to say that it hasn't been helpful! Initially my speech was messed up and I have perfectly clear speech now and also, as you know, quite a lot of mid-range facial motion back. If you want to see the exercises I've been using, I saved them in a PDF and would be happy to email them to you if you'd like. Again, they are more geared to stroke patients, but there is some good stuff in there. Not as good as what you'd get with a NMR specialist but still helpful. I only saw the therapist at Kessler a couple of times - it seems like much of this is self-directed, unlike traditional PT.
This facial journey is certainly interesting - and quite frustrating at times. Not to mention slow! However, I can see so much improvement from six months ago (thanks, Eve!) that it encourages me - and I hope anyone who reads this finds some encouragement, too.
I am still seeking answers and appreciate any tips anyone is willing to share. And, David, thanks again for the specificity of your post - this is so helpful! And, of course, you are an inspiration when it comes to facial rehab!
Debbi