Hi Connie,
I had middle fossa in August 2008. I didn't have any balance issues before my surgery, so I was told to be prepared for the balance issues because my non-AN side balance nerve had not had to take over anything at that point. My surgeon also told me that always to keep in mind that it is
temporary.
I did have balance issues after the surgery, but the more walking I did, the better it got. I never used a cane or a walker - my surgeon believes that you recover faster without them - and by 2 weeks post-op I was walking inside and outside on my own with no help. I was walking slow, but by golly it was with no help. Until then, I would walk with members of my family and hang onto their arm as we walked. I also did a lot of reading on the different kinds of exercises that folks here on the forum mentioned in the balance issues section and did those, too.
I only fainted once, and that was at 5 days post-op when I was watching my mom take the "turbon" off of my head. As she unwound it, I watched it go round and round and I got VERY dizzy, sat down and I was out for the count. LOL. That was the first and only time I ever felt "dizzy". OTherwise, it was more of a sideways/back and forth kind of balance issue with me. NEVER had the spinning room dizzy sensation.
I went to a Vestibular Physical Therapist at 4 1/2 weeks post-op. My PT said that because I had been walking and exercising regularly I was doing so well that she gave me additional exercises to do and I didn't need to go back unless I was having problems. After a week of doing the exercises that she gave me (very simple and short ones) I had a BIG improvement and went back to driving.
Everyone is different, but that was my experience. What Donnalynn mentioned about your head being heavy like a fishbowl inside of it is a pretty good description of how my head would feel at first a lot, and then over time if I over did it or when I started doing a new exercise. Not at almost 5 months post-op when I overdo it or I don't get enough sleep and am fatigued the feeling is just very slight and doesn't really bother me that much. The heavy fishbowl has turned into a little goldfish.
I just keep working through it and still see improvement. Also, the recover wasn't a steady incline for me - there were dips in the process - like 3 steps forward/1 step backwards at times, but overall it just kep improving.
I mowed the grass in Oct (self propelled, thank goodness), I shovel and snow blow now this winter and feel that I am pretty much back to normal. Now I pay more attention to not overdoing the lifting stuff so that my tennis elbow(s) doesn't bother me!
So, I guess that's a good thing!
Hang in there, you will be fine and remember it's temporary. I personally believe that the mind plays an important role in how the body recovers. Also remember that the more you walk the faster it gets better.
We will all be thinking of you this week. You will be fine.
Cathy