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« on: January 08, 2009, 05:12:36 pm »
Today marks exactly 8 months since my retrosigmoid surgery.  In many ways I feel blessed that I've been able to come as far as I have in such an amount of time.  In other ways I feel saddened that I've had to endure SO much in the last 8-9 months.  Through it all, my friends here have answered my questions, calmed my fears, laughed with me, cried with me, and generally put up with me while I ranted about one thing or another.

Especially in light of the fact that I deal with much lighter issues than many of you on this forum (at least in my estimation), I truly feel blessed for my progress and most of all that each of you have been so supportive of me during this journey.

Things are not back to "normal" (pre-surgery), but they're close enough that I won't complain (too much).  Anyone out there considering their treatment options will hopefully gain some assurance that with some time, things don't always stay bad.  They may not be pretty for awhile, and nobody would ever say that what we've done is "easy", but with patience, perserverance and most of all the unconditional support of those both in your "real" life and on this forum, one can make a great go at recovery.

Thank each of you for your help, guidance, and support through this last 8-9 months.. It's truly been invaluable to me.

Kindest regards,

Brian
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« Reply #1 on: January 08, 2009, 07:25:18 pm »
Wow - 8 months already, Brian!  It seems like just yesterday we were waiting for the hospital updates from Jenny.

You've come a long way in that 8 months and I'm sure things will just continue to get more "normal".

Happy 8 month anniversary - I hope you have something fun planned to celebrate!  Why wait til your year anniversary - celebrate any chance you get!   ;D

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« Reply #2 on: January 08, 2009, 08:22:12 pm »
Congratulations, Pooter.

Like Lori said, it's hard to believe it's been that long since your surgery. 

You've reached a lot of milestones in the past 8 months and we're proud of you.

So, are you going to get to the symposium in August so we can meet you and Jenny?

I certain hope so because Lori has told me she's planning to buy you a celebratory drink  ;)

Bottoms up,

Jan

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« Reply #3 on: January 08, 2009, 08:51:22 pm »
Brian~
WOW!  Time flies when we are having fun...& apparently even when we aren't!  You have made great progress and had a good attitude - thank you for all that you give back to others on this site!

K   ;D
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« Reply #4 on: January 09, 2009, 05:57:41 am »
Congratulations!  You are doing so great!!
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« Reply #5 on: January 09, 2009, 07:05:53 am »
To my Pooter.... I am so proud of you and tickled things are going well..... I know it's been a tough path for you and I'm sending huggles for continued wellness... onward and upward as I like to say! :)

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« Reply #6 on: January 09, 2009, 08:07:59 am »
Thanks everyone!  I sincerely appreciate it!  In many ways it feels like time has flown, but in others it seems that it has crawled.  It does seem kinda like yesterday that I was this scared guy looking for information right after diagnosis in March.  I had no idea that my world was going to be rocked like it was.

Jan, we're still a "maybe" on going to the symposium.  I joined the ANA a few weeks ago expecting that I would get the latest newsletter with all of the symposium info / registration in it and what I got was the issue before that.  Ugh.  We'll see, but I would like to go!  I agree that I've reached a lot of milestones in such a short amount of time.  I often feel like my complaints shouldn't be complaints at all.  I should be thankful for all the milestones and not lament over the other stuff.

Lori, I agree that celebrating anytime you can make up an excuse is good!  Alas, my night was spent just like every night.. Helping with homework, bathing the kids (or helping to do so), cleaning bottoms, dressing kids for bed, and everything else that is a norm for a parent of a 8 and 3 year old.  Perhaps I'll be able to celebrate more this weekend.

Phyl, Brenda, and Kaybo, thanks!  I count you three as many of my "heroes" (or should I say "heroines") in all of this.  You guys, among some others, never cease to amaze me with your perserverence, courageousness, and great attitudes with all you have had to endure in life.  In short, you guys rock!

Thanks everyone again..

Regards,
Brian
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Diagnosed 4/10/08 - 3cm Right AN
12hr retrosig 5/8/08 w/Drs Vrabec and Trask in Houston, Tx
Some facial paralysis post-op but most movement is back, some tinitus.  SSD on right.
Story documented here:  http://briansbrainbooger.blogspot.com/

"I must be having fun all wrong!"  - Roger Creager

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« Reply #7 on: January 09, 2009, 10:26:11 am »
Aw Pooter! Where would we be wivout our breeze conjurer!  it seemes like these past 8 months have just "blown" by!
All the best wishes for your continued recovery.  Things get better even between years 1 and 2--why, I'm back wearing heels again after year 5 and you will be soon, too! This forum has certainly been the better for having had you on it! We luuuuuuurrrrves ya ye scurvy bloke!

Hugs,

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« Reply #8 on: January 09, 2009, 11:41:48 am »
Wait a minute, I have to wear heels?  ;)

Brian
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12hr retrosig 5/8/08 w/Drs Vrabec and Trask in Houston, Tx
Some facial paralysis post-op but most movement is back, some tinitus.  SSD on right.
Story documented here:  http://briansbrainbooger.blogspot.com/

"I must be having fun all wrong!"  - Roger Creager

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« Reply #9 on: January 09, 2009, 04:10:49 pm »
Brian:

Congratulations on all you've endured and conquered these past eight months.  Although your complications may not have been severe, they were still obstacles you had to surmount.  That you've done so with determination while dealing with an (unscheduled) job change and the responsibilities of a husband and father is a testament to your resilience and fortitude.  You're an example to those who may avoid the more drastic post-op complications but still have to deal with impediments on the path to normalcy that don't garner as much attention or sympathy but are something many post-op AN patients must face every day.  I sincerely hope that even better days still lie ahead.  :)

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« Reply #10 on: January 09, 2009, 04:16:21 pm »
Hey Brian!

I always forget how close our surgery dates were!  I "celebrated" my 8 months on New Year's Eve - it's  easy for me to remember my date since it was the last day of April.  I always like hearing how you are doing - and you know I am always out here in Jersey cheering you on!

I hope you and Jen can make it to the symposium - Willie and I will buy you guys a drink, for sure!  We already booked a room, and I paid the registration fee - all I have to do is book the flights.  I think we'll stay an extra couple of days and play - Ii just love Chicago, it ranks just behind NYC in terms of my favorite USA cities. 

Celebrate all the milestones, and try not to get down when things don't progress on an even trajectory all the time. 

Debbi
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« Reply #11 on: January 09, 2009, 04:51:33 pm »
Yup, we were like a week apart!  You're like my long, lost sister that I never..wait, I have one.  Anyway, you're a kindred spirt of sorts.  Please know you have a friend in Texas cheering you on through it all too!

I'll talk to Jenni again about the symposium.  I'd really like to go!  I've never been to Chicago before, so it would be a welcome venture!  Plus, I get a free ride on the ANA Leer, or so I'm told.  ;)

I have little victories all of the time that I celebrate.  I really try not to get discouraged when things are SO SLOW.. I really do try.

It's been a heckuva ride for us, eh?

Jim, thanks so much for the note.  The primary reason I've stuck around here after surgery is so that others who are considering their options get one (of many) perspectives of the journey of a surgery AN patient that is positive..  All in all it's been bumpy but getting better all the time.  I appreciate your thoughts now and everytime I read your posts to me and others.  I've always liked the inviting way that you've encouraged everyone and given them advice when warranted even if I do need my dictionary handy sometimes. ;)  Better days ahead; like wearing heels?  Heh.

Okay, group hug!  Then, we can all put on our Steve-knitted caps, climb into the ANA Leer, and fly to get our custom-made bonnet from Wendy and Lori and then be whisked away to some tropical unknown destination!  Okay, so I got a bit out of control.

Regards,
Brian
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Diagnosed 4/10/08 - 3cm Right AN
12hr retrosig 5/8/08 w/Drs Vrabec and Trask in Houston, Tx
Some facial paralysis post-op but most movement is back, some tinitus.  SSD on right.
Story documented here:  http://briansbrainbooger.blogspot.com/

"I must be having fun all wrong!"  - Roger Creager

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« Reply #12 on: January 09, 2009, 08:03:29 pm »
I will whine slightly that your post reminds me how quickly time is flying by these days; it will soon be a year, and it seems like a couple of months.  :-\

Okay, back to cheerful. It would be great to see you in Chicago, I hope you can make it. There is at least the possibility of a knit hat.  ;D

Keep up the good work, and may every month get better.

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« Reply #13 on: January 10, 2009, 06:23:57 am »
Congrats Brian--you have come a long way as they say, and with good humor and courage.  Hope to meet you at the symposium--I'm still intending on going!
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« Reply #14 on: January 10, 2009, 02:31:51 pm »
Brian -

call or email the ANA.  They'll be happy to send you a copy of the most recent newsletter.  Afterall, you are a paying member  :)

Although there is info on this website about the symposium, you don't want to miss Francesco's article in the newsletter.  Very well written.

Jan
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