Hi, Richard:
You almost certainly do not have Meniere's. Meniere's presents, in part, with low-frequency hearing loss. Since you are experiencing high-frequency loss, this pretty much rules out Meniere's. Also, Meniere's patients experience disabling bouts of vertigo, and not just the disequilibrium you seem to be describing.
Not to minimize your symptoms; we here all know what you're going through and can empathize. But you should put your mind at ease that it's not Meniere's that you've got.
If it were me, I'd get a gadolinium-enhanced MRI at a facility that specializes in brain tumors. You don't want some radiologist whose specialty is the lungs, for example, trying to interpret what might be a small AN or simply the cross-section of an artery or nerve (which can be the same size and shape; i.e., the location of an enhanced object can determine if it's something that should be there or not).
Oh, and if I remember correctly, the internal auditory meatus is the hole the hearing, vestibular and facial nerves pass through as they exit the internal auditory canal (IAC) to enter the CPA. The internal auditory fundus, on the other hand, is the lateral extent of the IAC (that which is closest to the labyrinth). The IAC is roughly only 1 cm in length (0.7 to about 1.2 cm, depending on a person's individual anatomy), so if your radiologist was looking at the meatus, it's not likely they'd overlook an AN in the IAC itself, due to its close proximity. But stranger oversights have happened.
Best wishes,
Tumbleweed