May:
Just because your tumor isn't growing doesn't necessarily mean that it's not damaging your cranial nerves further. That may or may not be the case.
Of course, it's great that it's not getting bigger, because that would likely eventually increase your symptoms or cause new ones. But as Dr. Chang once told me (and as someone else noted in this thread regarding hearing in particular), the symptoms you have going in to treatment largely determine the type and severity of symptoms after treatment. By that measure, you don't want to put off treatment forever. Then again, in Sweden the doctors largely take the stance that one should wait until the patient is deaf before treating (and then they do surgery). There are no hard and fast rules, and it's a personal decision when to seek treatment.
The fact that you're having trigeminal-nerve involvement and symptoms at this point concern me. That's something I would not want to let progress.
As for one doctor saying your tumor's thickness has increased 20%, that's only 2.2 mm for an 11mm AN. Different doctors measure the same AN and get slightly different measurements, as each measurement is taken obliquely, or at an angle across the thickest part of the tumor. That plus the fact that an MRI's margin of error is around 2 mm can result in one doctor saying that the measurements are virtually unchanged while another -- taking his measurements literally vis-a-vis measurements made from a prior MRI -- says there's been a change.
In any case, 18 mm -- while still considered a medium-sized AN -- is getting large enough that it's probably at most a few millimeters away from your brain stem. Involvement of the trigeminal nerve would seem to support that theory, although one would have to see your MRI to conclude firmly that this is the case. If your doctors confirm this close proximity to your brain stem, you may not want to wait too much longer before getting treatment. Of course, watch-and-wait is also not unreasonable when you consider that most of your doctors say your AN has not grown in size.
Steve, you're right, of course, that speech recognition can worsen independently of any change (or not) in speech threshold. I was only trying to point out that the two metrics don't always trend together. In my case, my speech threshold and hearing in one frequency band both worsened 15 dB since getting CK, yet my speech recognition did not (and is still 100%). That doesn't keep me from saying "what?" all the time when people speak too low or in noisy environments.
I think my results are due to my not presently hearing any distortion.
Best wishes to all,
TW