Hi there Moe: I'm in almost the same boat as you - my facial nerve was cut & re-enastomosed - I didn't have the 7/12 jump though. Instead, I went the route of T3 surgery (Temporalis Tendon Transfer). Both K & I had it done by Dr. Patrick Byrne at Johns Hopkins Hospital in Baltimore, Maryland. I have before/after pictures at 7 weeks & again at 1 year. (the pictures are under Facial Issues, subject: Post Temporalis Tendon Transfer). This was the BEST surgery for me ! ! I am very happy with the results.
At 1st my ins. (Cigna) said I would have to pay 30% due to out-of network,, but Johns Hopkins repaid me about $5,000. - so I think the ins. co. realized only a handful of dr's do this procedure.
I continue to have eye surgeries, in fact, tomorrow I'm having a surgery to implant a pyrex tube in the inner corner of my eye to stop my abundance of tears from dropping on my face all day (I can't wait ! - my co-workers want to know if we can make lasagna in the tube, they'll put my head in the microwave ! ! a sick but fun bunch I work with !)
I still use a moisture chamber every night & use Refresh PM lubricant several times a day (drops don't work for me).
You're not alone my friend.
Always good thoughts, Nancy