I know how tough it is when doctors disagree.
From looking at your past posts, it looks like you have two masses in your head that are growing. Has there been any news on the other mass? Have you had a previous cancer of any significant family history of cancer to bend your decision in either direction? Or do you have medical reasons that make you not a good surgical candidate?
If you are in otherwise good health, have a 3-plus-cm mass that is growing rapidly, suspicion from House that it may not be an AN, and have access to very good surgeons, (also not sure of your age), I would strongly consider having it removed.
Looked at another way, have you spoken to a doctor who does radiosurgery for ANs and are they confident that they can help you? Do THEY even agree that you should radiate?
I have a tumor that is not an AN too, so they tested me in quick succession at first to make sure it wasn't growing rapidly. (It wasn't.) Even though everyone advised surgery, I was still resistant and sought out opinions from doctors who favored radiosurgery, such as Dr. Chang at Stanford. Absolutely no one, including him, thought radiation was right for my case -- which makes the decision a lot easier!
Even in confusion, eventually the weight of the evidence does tip. In your case you may have somewhat less leisure time if it's growing rapidly. How good are the oncologists you're talking to, are they top experts in neuro-oncology?