Helene,
You're such a pirate! My mom got me an eye patch at my request, but I couldn't figure out how to use it. My son, who is in his third year of uni at Edinburgh, emailed, "Eye patch, cool!" as I warned him of my post-op condition (He will return home for the summer next Saturday.). My daughter, who is 22 and living in Chicago, when I showed her the scar photo, suggested I go for the full Mohawk. I thought they would be sympathetic and say "Poor Mommy." Instead I get jokes! So you never know what to expect from your kids.
Great posting, Mats. Be sure to take some time for yourself. Let your young adult children lift some of the burden of caring for Helene, the house, and certainly themselves when she gets home. My kids lucked out since I was able to wait until they were well on their ways before having my surgery.
Time will fly, and life will be back to normal, or almost, soon.
Nancy