Thank you all for all of the kind words and prayers. The latest update is that David's Dad will have his bladder surgery on June 25. David's step-Dad's stroke was a frontal lobe stroke and he is having a rough time as is my mother-in-law. We are trying to bring them to Texas so that my mother-in-law gets some breaks and David's stepDad is closer to quality care and rehab. David's Dad has three tumors, two inside his bladder and one attached to the outside. The pictures of it are really "cool". My father-in-law couldn't believe wanted to see them. It's easier to google when you have the pictures of what you are looking for. I have been sending David's Dad American greetings ecards, featuring "Nigel's voice" and my words of wisdom concerning his upcoming surgery. If you haven't seen them they are really unique and give the receiver a good chuckle even when they are pretty down.
Good thoughts and prayers to you all,
Brenda