Hi Life is Beautiful! - WELCOME! (But sorry you had to join this crazy AN club!)
You are so right - FANTASTIC FOLKS here and i am still learning lots after 8 months or so.
It seems to me that most folks go into treatment and the symptoms they have going in, like tinnitus, do not necessarily get 'better.'
[But read on - there are exceptions to every rule!]
Anyway, i am in W & W mode, and my sister is too, diagnosed 6 months prior to me (see signature).
I was misdiagnosed for at least 12 years - so i was LONG into W & W and didn't know it! My hearing has declined, but not rapidly. (Maybe 40% decline now?) Hearing loss and 'fullness' in the ear are my main symptoms. My AN is a little bigger than yours, but still considered 'small.' My ENT at Unv. of VA suggested i 'do' something when the AN reaches the 1.5 cm size, if it ever gets there. Since i have basically had no change in 6 months, i continue W & W for now. Keep in mind that part of the concern is not necessarily the size, but the AN location and how it is pressing on which nerves. "Small but mighty' is a phrase you will sometimes see around here.
Yes, i would like to keep some of my hearing too, being a former musician. And, with a smaller AN, i would prefer to not have surgery.
But, being a little older than you (53!) i also consider things like my general health and insurance coverage. My choice today would be CK at Stanford.
We have CK on the East Coast, but lets just say i would prefer Stanford if i have the chance. No guarantees on ANY treatment, that is part of this crazy journey!
I am sure you will receive comments from some fellow musicians, as well as all the other fine folks here on the FORUM!
All my best to you in your AN journey! Keep asking questions, this is a SUPER-DUPER place!
Sue
PS. Most AN patients seem to have MRIs at 6 month intervals unless other symptoms develop. I had seen 2 local ENTs and they told me i was losing my hearing because i was getting 'older.' OK - you may like your ENT, but PLEASE seek those professionals with AN experience. I believe this is VERY important. What would i have done, if my sister had not had a VERY ASTUTE ENT? After her diagnosis, i simply went to a major med. ctr., explained my story and ASKED for the MRI. Thank goodness, my ENT said yes!