I went through the wait and watch, but when the tumor started growing, we'd already decided to do surgery. For my mind-set, I needed the results to be concrete plus I had a 40% chance of saving my hearing, which they did! I interviewed surgeons in OK, TX, CA and a radiologist in PA. I went with Dr. Gidley and DeMonte at MD Anderson; they were awesome and had a good bedside manner. It has be about 2.5 year and I have mild tinnitus, but have my hearing. After surgery, I stayed down in Houston for 10 days, then back to Oklahoma. I got my balance back during that time, but my TMJ (pre-existing condition) ramped up; however I have the support of a great PT that has worked with me and got me on the road to recovery. It is always scary and beyond stressful, but I'm glad I did it and now feel I can move on with my life. By the way, I'd strongly recommend that anyone who goes through surgery, see a head/neck PT that has dealt with folks like us; makes a big difference. Take care and my prayers and thoughts are with you.